Many first timers don’t appreciate anal sex for what it is. Sure, it can be extremely unpleasant if done incorrectly. However, it can be absolutely fantastic if done right. Everyone is a beginner at some point. You’re not born with the natural ability to please an asshole. You will have all the information needed after reading this article.
5. Always use lube when having anal sex.
Lube is an asshole’s best friend. Use plenty of it. Don’t worry about money at a time like this. You may even want to put a towel on the bed. All that lube can get pretty messy.
4. Massage her ass before plunging deep inside it.
Why is it important to massage her ass before getting your dick wet in it? You want to make sure she’s good and relaxed. If she’s tense, that will make her asshole pucker up. This will, in turn, make her asshole super tight. That will make it hurt even more when you stick your penis inside it.
3. Start out small and work your way up.
A skinny toy is great for loosening up her asshole. Don’t have one? Use a finger instead. Now isn’t the time to be grossed out about having a finger up her ass. You’re cock is going to be up in that soon enough. Start out by rubbing around the edges of her asshole. There are a lot of nerve endings in this area. It’ll feel good. Sure, it may feel a little strange at first as it’s not every day that a person gets their asshole massaged. She’ll start to enjoy it and you’ll notice her becoming more and more at ease.
2. Don’t pound her asshole silly.
Guys seem to think that girls want to be pounded like a piece of meat. Slow it down there cowboy. She’s not a bucking bronco. Take it easy and slide that cock of yours in. If you hurt her right away, she’s going to put an end to it all. That would shut down your anal sex dreams for good. Just be nice and slow. You can pick up the pace once she gets used to having something where the sun doesn’t shine.
1. Now isn’t the time to forget her pussy.
Your mind is all up in her asshole. It feels great. You’ve dreamed about this moment your entire life. Don’t blow it. Make sure you please her pussy as well. Rubbing her clit a little will literally set your woman’s loins on fire. Remember, you can have anal sex in the missionary position. Pleasing her pussy is going to be much harder if you’re knocking on her backdoor doggy style. Just something to remember when you’re getting ready to take the plunge.
Many women are frightened by the thought of having anal sex. Some of them have good reason to. They may have had a bad experience in the past. Those who do are more likely to never have anal sex again. Keeping these five things in mind during anal sex will result in you doing it again. You’re not just trying to enjoy her asshole today. You want to enjoy it time and time again. The only way to do that is by making sure she has an enjoyable experience as well.