Sex after birth can be a very difficult thing. The reasons for it may not be the first things that come to mind. Childbirth is a big time event for both people. It should go without saying that it’s far more of a big event for the woman. This doesn’t mean she’s the only one who needs help in the bedroom department. It’s going to take both people some time to get back in the swing of things. Hopefully this article will help you get on track to having a healthy and normal sex life.
Hormones are real things.
Guys don’t understand this. They never will. A woman’s body who just gave birth has gone through all kinds of stuff. She’s going to be moody. There are other things going on too. You very well may need to use some lube. Don’t be shy about greasing up your cock before sticking it in. Lube can be a man’s best friend at times like these.
Foreplay is very important.
Foreplay is always important. No one should have sex without a little of it first. It’s a whole different world for a woman who has recently given birth. She needs to get all hot and bothered. It may take her a little more time. Remember, it’s those pesky things called hormones. She’s going to need to get all hot and bothered. Even more so now that getting wet is more difficult. Don’t be in a hurry and enjoy yourself. It’s been a long time since you’ve gotten laid. Now is the time to just kick back and relax. Get face deep in her pussy and go to town.
Don’t have sex right before bed.
This is the time most couples have sex. No woman is going to feel like having sex after taking care of a baby all day long. Chances are pretty good that the woman is the primary caretaker of the baby. She’s going to be on her feet a lot. This will drain her energy big time. If you’re a guy, then you’re not going to understand this. By the time your woman goes to bed, she’s going to be really tired. Try to find some way to have sex in the daytime. Have one of the grandparents babysit. They’ll love spending time with their grandkid and you’ll be able to have some unhurried fun in between the sheets.
Be prepared for a few awkward moments.
They can’t be avoided. This is especially the case if you’re having sex in the same room as the baby. At some point the baby is going to wake up during your love making. It’s going to take the two of you some time to just get used to having sex again. This will undoubtedly be true if you didn’t have sex much during the pregnancy. You’re going to have to find your knack again. Some think that sex is like riding a bicycle. Actually, you do forget some things if you haven’t had sex in a while. A woman might forget how much her man loves to have under his balls rubbed. A guy may the importance of spending some precious time with a clit.
Sex after pregnancy is a difficult thing. There’s no way around it. That doesn’t mean it’s impossible. You can and should have sex after giving birth. Sex is a very normal part of a relationship. The desire for closeness and the pleasure that sex has to offer is something every person should want. Just don’t be surprised if the first few times is a little awkward and maybe even weird.