It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to know how to properly finger a pussy. That doesn’t mean many guys actually understand the art of fingering. Yes, it’s an actual art. A woman can achieve as much pleasure or more during fingering than sex. This is true and any woman out there will tell you. If you can’t make your partner orgasm using just your finger, then you need to read this. Hopefully, it’ll put you on the path of being able to pleasure her with just one of your fingers.
Guys, you want to start out slow. This isn’t a race. A few kisses and some fondling of the breasts go a long way. You see, what you’re trying to do is make her wet down there. This is key to properly finger banging a girl. If she’s not wet, then it’s not going to happen. Make sure you spend plenty of time arousing her.
Rub your hand up and down her slit. Also, massage her mound as well. Run your fingers through her pubic hair if she has some. If not, then rub the area where the pubic hair would be. You can do this while sucking on one of her nipples. Every now and then pull her pussy lips apart while running your hand up and down her slit. Pay close attention to how wet she’s getting. This will tell you when it’s time to move onto the next phase.
You don’t want to stick a finger in her pussy if she’s not wet. Don’t do it. Also, don’t rub her clit if she’s not aroused. If you do everything right and there’s little or no wetness down there, use some lube. If you have none, spit will work too. You just want to make things slippery down there. Sometimes a woman can be a little dry, even if she is aroused. It has nothing to do with you if you’ve done everything right to turn her on.
Do you focus on her clit or stick a few fingers inside the vagina? More often than not you should zero in on her clit. You can do a little digital penetration if you want. You’re probably not going to bring her to orgasm that way. Clitoral stimulation is what you want to do if your goal is to make her have an orgasm. Finding the G spot and all that is for seasoned pros. You’re not at that stage yet.
Lightly rub her clit in a circular motion. Don’t be too rough or rub it too fast. Slow and steady works each and every time. A woman’s state of arousal changes as the pleasure increases. You’ll notice this as you dial in the satisfaction. You can use two hands and do a little penetration if you want. Though, it’s really not needed. Just focus on her clit and respond when you notice she likes something you’re doing.
Making a girl cum using just your fingers isn’t a difficult task. It’s something every guy should learn how to do. There’s something special about bringing your partner to orgasm. She’ll enjoy sex more and that means you’ll get more action. It could be easily said that most men are greedy in the bedroom. They don’t pay attention to their partner’s needs. You can quickly and easily avoid this by learning how to finger your partner until they quiver in pure delight.