This is a situation that far too many couples are faced with. What do you do if your partner has less of a sex drive than you do? It’s not uncommon for men to have a much stronger sex drive than women. This should almost be expected and it’s not truly alarming. It only becomes a problem when there’s a big gap in between the amount of sex each partner desires. Here we’ll give you some tips on how to handle and get through these tough situations. A lack of sex drive doesn’t necessarily mean that your relationship has to be over. You’ve got to learn how to deal with it and make sure that each person is satisfied with the relationship.
Sometimes you’ve just got to bite the bullet and have sex. You may not be in the mood, but your partner is. This isn’t the worst thing in the entire world. Most guys would go absolutely nuts if their woman was constantly horny. If you’re a guy and your woman wants sex, don’t make her beg. The same thing could be said of a woman whose man wants sex, but she doesn’t. Sometimes you’ve just got to fulfill the needs of your partner. Don’t worry, sex doesn’t last too long. It usually doesn’t if the other person hasn’t had any for a while. Who knows, you might even be able to finish having sex before the commercials stop on your favorite TV show. Just think, you won’t miss a thing and your partner will be satisfied.
Masturbation is a handy tool for those who can’t get any. You may have a supercharged sex drive while your partner is someone who is cold as ice. The way you balance things out here is by masturbating. It’s not the ideal thing to do, but sometimes you’ve got to do it. You shouldn’t get too upset when you have to masturbate. Just remember, no one knows how to please yourself like you do. Sex may be a whole lot more fun, but this is the best you’re going to get for now. You might as well just accept it and make yourself feel good.
Taking a cold shower never works. Neither does trying to get your mind off of sex. You can try and it’s not going to work. Masturbation is the only thing that can help other than sex. It’s important to realize the role of communication in a situation like this. You’ve got to tell your partner exactly what’s going on. It’s your job to be vocal and to speak up about the lack of sex in your relationship. You may be getting more sex than your friends. If this is the case, thank your lucky stars. You’re just extra horny and your partner is probably average. Talk to your partner tell them that you’re on satisfied with the amount of sex that’s taking place.
Honesty will get you a long way. Open up and discuss the situation in the frankest terms possible. Sex is a vital component of every relationship. It can easily wreck a bond between two people when there isn’t enough sex. If you value your relationship, take this situation very seriously. Do whatever is necessary to increase the amount of sex the two of you are having. This will improve the quality of your life and increase the bond you share as a couple.