Swinging has been something you and your partner has been talking about lately. The next line of conversation is always the same thing. Those who are looking into swinging almost always go to a club. Sure, you can find swingers online and hook up with them that way. But, it’s not the same thing. Going to a swingers’ club allows you to experience everything on a whole new level. Plus, you don’t have to get in on the action if neither of you want to. That’s right, you can kick back and simply enjoy the view.
Here are some tips that every couple should keep in mind when going to a swingers’ club.
Don’t drink too much alcohol
A drink or two can loosen you up. Which is a good thing in situations like this. You don’t want to get plastered. You’ll be surprised by just how serious swingers are. The public likes to think of swingers as people who live life pedal to the metal. This actually isn’t the case at all. If you’re too drunk, no one is going to hook up with you. With this in mind, drink as little as possible. A drink is good. Ten is bad. You get the drift.
Swingers always practice safe sex
You better have condoms ready to go. Both of you should have some in case the other goes off into a different location. Swingers have a well-deserved reputation of being the most careful people on the planet. Condoms are a must. You will not have sex without them. It’s not even unheard of to use a condom during oral sex. These are people who share their partners with others. This means they have quite a few sex partners. The only healthy way to do that is by being vigilant when practicing safe sex.
Don’t be afraid to just watch
Some swingers are voyeurs. That means they like it when you watch. Not all people go to swingers’ clubs to trade partners. Some just go to have sex in front of others. This might sound strange to some people. But, it really shouldn’t. Where else can someone have sex in front of a lot of people without getting arrested? A swingers’ club is the only place where this can happen. Don’t feel uncomfortable if you’re not up to swapping partners on the first visit. It’s very okay to just enjoy the view. You can also have sex while watching. This can be a total blast for you and anyone who’s fortunate enough to watch.
Never feel like you must have sex with a stranger while at a swingers’ club. Some people will go in and immediately head right back out. It sounds like a good idea at first. It may not be such a fantastic idea once you see someone having sex with your partner. Jealousy is a real thing and people can and do experience it in situations like this. You may not be ready to allow your partner to go all the way with someone else. You can always start with kissing or oral sex. The bottom line is this: If at any point you feel uncomfortable, then leave. No person should feel forced into a sexual situation that leaves them feeling anything other than satisfied.