You’ve been enjoying the dominate and submissive roles lately. It may be something that’s totally new to you. Though, some of you may have been doing it for quite some time. Regardless of how long you’ve been practicing this form of BDSM, you can still benefit from the tips we’re about to give you. It’s all about keeping things fresh. Regardless of your kink, this is the thing that remains consistent.
Orgasm control is the ultimate satisfaction.
It is if you’re the dominate type. Make sure your partner fully understands they can’t cum without your approval. Make them pay if they even get close to the point of no return. You can do this repeatedly. Get them so close that they beg to cum. Make them get on their hands and knees to beg you to allow it to happen.
Show your dominance in public.
This can be a lot of fun. Don’t just dominate your partner in the bedroom. Do it in public. Are you super kinky? Then break out the nipple clamps or whatever else you can think of. You can even spank them in public. You’re probably going to want to keep the violence to a minimum. Some people may not realize that you’re simply being dominate. You’ll quickly find out that the police are far more dominate than you are. So, just keep it verbal and include plenty of humiliation.
Humilate your partner every chance you get.
This can also be done in public. Some people love to be humiliated in front of others. You can also do it at home. Say tons of bad shit to them. Maybe even spit in their face. The goal is to break them down as much as possible. Don’t be surprised if you catch your partner masturbating after you’ve humiliated them. It can be a real turn on for some people.
Being tied up can be a total blast.
Don’t go to your local hardware store and buy some rope. That stuff can easily create rope burns. Instead, buy some from a sex toy shop. This rope will be much softer. You can tie up your partner in all kinds of ways. Hog tying is probably the best way to do it. After they’re bound, you can introduce all kinds of stuff to the mix. You can tickle them or even break out the whip. The possibilities are only limited by your creativity.
Add role-playing into the mix
You’re not going to do a whole lot of role playing while tied up. But, there are other situations when you can role-play. You could be the prison guard while your partner is the prisoner. This too can be done while out in public. You can even go to the extreme of broadcasting it all over the internet. Just imagine how wild it would be to know that people from all over the world are watching you.
Most couples enter the world of BDSM to spice up their sex life. What they don’t realize is, even BDSM can get boring. Keeping sex interesting is a constant challenge no matter what your fetish is. Always try new things that you find exciting. Talk to your partner about what turns you on. Be free and open sexually – it’s the only way make the most out of your sexual relationship.